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Thursday, February 26, 2009

Some facts about doing my laundry

Some facts about doing my laundry
by Rev. Fr. Philip Vincent S. Sinco

The Season of Lent has two important invitations: to turn away from sin and to be faithful in the message of the Gospel. I believe, nobody will ever be challenged by these injunctions unless he has gone deep into himself and be aware of what is going on in his life. I think this is what happened to me in the past days. Paradoxically, the things that I have been carrying out in routine, say, doing my laundry, has opened my awareness to the recurring issues I keep on dealing with myself in the past twenty-eight years of my personal journey. What seemed to be tedious and boring has turned out to be an opportunity for self-discovery, and that I was able to regress inwardly as I searched for inner peace and healing.

Hence, allow me to share to you some facts about doing my laundry...

WASH
It’s been ages that I washed my clothes with my bare hands. As far as I can remember, the last time I stretched and crumpled those dirty shirts of mine was when the pulsator of our washing machine at home screwed up and I had no choice but to put everything inside the large tub, and let my 10 fingers do the job. Now I am doing it again, reminding myself that everything has to start from the basic...

At the back of my mind, I was torn between living the easy life and taking responsibility for myself…I have been so used in getting things done in a jiffy that my understanding of personal accountability and trustworthiness were shrouded…I was so into my comfort zones lately that I almost forgot where I actually came from…I know that I have endured a lot through the years but my painless and worry-free disposition has reduced my memory to practicality…all I ever wanted was an easy life and there was a point in time that I thought everything was possible…but in reality, it wasn’t. Just like washing my clothes, life is difficult…

RINSE
I usually rinse my clothes three times before I finally drench it in a separate tub of fabric conditioner mixed with water. This is to make sure that what I will be wearing is free from remnants of soap suds. I just don’t like the impression that my laundry was haphazardly done especially when my folks notice some white marks on my shirt as if I applied too much baby powder on my body (which I don’t usually do)…I am also very particular with stains. If they still remain after several washing, I would throw or give that shirt away.

In life, there have been instances that I hate myself because of my woundedness…that I often question my credibility and worthiness, thinking that I don’t deserve anything…that happiness can never be free or spontaneous because I have to work hard for it all the time…like the stains on my shirt, there are certain experiences that I’d rather forget because it is too painful to remember…only to realize later on that facing it squarely, when I had the chance, would have made me courageous and strong…sometimes ,I feel bad when the "ghosts" of my past would haunt me again because I have deliberately thrown them away…Now, I am reminded that there is such a thing called “grace” and this “grace” is usually build on nature.

DRY
Drying my clothes is not a simple task for I have to bear the scorching heat of the sun…or better wait for several days before I can finally wear my favorite shirt if it’s raining…or put it inside the dryer and spin it in eternity...Occasionally (and with much desperation), I’d like to defy time, ironing my damp clothes forcibly so that I can use them again, only to be embarrassed later on that they are not actually parched up but stinky.

In life, there are occasions when I get so impatient over certain matters…that I jump easily to conclusion without weighing down the odds…that I have been so attached to the results of my words and actions that I have failed to look closely into myself and discern which is more loving and life-giving…and then, I am reminded once again that my thoughts are faster than my words so that I can ponder things well inside my mind before blurting them out…and that I can be reasonable enough to control myself for the greater good…

FOLD
I am a certified “neat freak”. Folding clothes for me is like solving a geometrical equation , where I would painstakingly pleat every edges in order to come up with a perfect square…more so, I would arrange them neatly- segregating the whites from coloreds, the plain shirts from printed shirts, the crew necks from v-necks, those with "sleeves" from those without "sleeves. It gives me satisfaction and contentment to see my cabinet in order…I would always aim for tidiness and harmony…

At times, I’d like to see life that way too…that everything’s fixed and all I have to do is to rely on what has been planned or scheduled. but having this idealism has left me frustrated in the past years…there are things that are beyond my control…in the end, I am only invited to take risk and let go for life is not all about precision…I will learn so much if I have the willingness to compromise and be comfortable with the occasional mistakes that I have committed. Failure makes sense sometimes. It makes me grow better as a person.

Perhaps, I should thank our labandera for making me realize these things once again. Salamat Nang Minda!

“Turn away from sin and be faithful to the Gospel!”

“Turn away from sin and be faithful to the Gospel!”
(cf. Mark 1:15)
by Bp. Gerardo A. Alminaza, D.D.

This is the formula used with the giving of ashes at the start of the Lenten Season, another alternative to “Remember you are dust and to dust you will return!” (cf. Genesis 3:19).

“Turn away from sin and be faithful to the Gospel!” This could be a powerful program for our Lenten discipline as well as for our efforts in building and strengthening our BEC’s. It has two movements: away from and moving towards. During these 40 days of Lent, we can ask ourselves in prayer: “From what or even whom am I being asked by the Lord to turn away from?” and “How can I be more faithful to the Gospel?” Reflecting on my life, the journey of our community, and the circumstances of our world today, “Where am I most challenged to grow to become a more loving person as God is to us?” “How can I be an instrument of communion?”

In his Lenten Message this year, the Holy Father Benedict XVI focuses on the value and meaning of fasting, which is an important means together with prayer and almsgiving, to make our Lenten spiritual exercises fruitful. Among other things, he says, “Denying material food, which nourishes our body, nurtures an interior disposition to listen to Christ and be fed by His saving word. Through fasting and praying, we allow Him to come and satisfy the deepest hunger that we experience in the depths of our being: the hunger and thirst for God. At the same time, fasting is an aid to open our eyes to the situation in which so many of our brothers and sisters live.”

He quoted Saint Peter Chrysologus who writes: “Fasting is the soul of prayer; mercy is the lifeblood of fasting. So if you pray, fast; if you fast, show mercy; if you want your petition to be heard, hear the petition of others. If you do not close your ear to others, you open God’s ear to yourself” (Sermo 43: PL 52, 320. 322).

And then the Holy Father goes on to say, “It is precisely to keep alive this welcoming and attentive attitude towards our brothers and sisters that I encourage the parishes and every other community to intensify in Lent the custom of private and communal fasts, joined to the reading of the Word of God, prayer and almsgiving. From the beginning, this has been the hallmark of the Christian community, in which special collections were taken up (cf. 2 Cor 8-9; Rm 15, 25-27), the faithful being invited to give to the poor what had been set aside from their fast (Didascalia Ap., V, 20,18). This practice needs to be rediscovered and encouraged again in our day, especially during the liturgical season of Lent.”

This is especially relevant with the recent experience of fire that burned around 40 houses in our community in Zone 2 Brgy. Bakhaw and led to the untimely and painful death of an elderly couple Romeo and Filomena Hisog. This also acquires more meaning as we pay attention to the plight of all Filipino migrant workers and their families during this first Sunday of Lent, contemplating Jesus being led by the Spirit into the desert, where He remained for 40 days and being tempted by Satan. As we observe fasting and abstinence and other works of mercy, let these words of Jesus be our inspiration: “My food is to do the will of him who sent me, and to finish his work.” (John 4:34)

I join the Holy Father in prayer and hope that every family and Christian community may use well this time of Lent in order to cast aside all that distracts the spirit and grow in whatever nourishes the soul, moving it to love of God and neighbor.

“Turn away from sin and be faithful to the Gospel!”

May Sunog! May Milagro!

May Sunog! May Milagro!
by Evelyn B. Nervato
Fe Marina S. Siacon

Nagkinarankaran ang tanan, nagalukdo sang mga gamit, nagaguyod sang mga sapat, sa paglikaw sa isa ka daku nga sunog nga natabo sa Barangay Bakhaw sang nagligad nga Pebrero 23, 2009. Nag-umpisa ini mga alas kwatro sa aga, nagikan sa kandila nga ginsindihan bangud sang brown-out. Diri sini nga balay nag-umpisa ang sunog. Madamo nga mga pamalay ang nagkalasunog lakip na diri ang mag-asawa. Malapad ang ginlamon sang kalayo humalin didto sa tangkulan sang taytay (taytay nga nagaangot sa Jaro market) pakadto sa old chapel nayon. Maayo lang kay ining old chapel ukon kapiya wala man masunog, pero sa kilid kag likod sini naupos gid. Diri nag-untat ang kalayo. Napalong ang kalayo sa bulig sang mga bombero, kag subong man sang mga tao mismo sa sini nga barangay nga wala nila ginbale ang kabudlay sa paghakot sang tubig gikan sa bomba. Masigbitbit lang sang ila balde.

Pagkatapos sang sunog, gintawgan ni Bishop Alminaza ang Pastoral Service Ministry sa pagkadto sa nasunugan sa pagpangungisa sang halit nga natuga sa mga tao upod kay Fr. Andy. Si Msgr. Oso nagpadala man gilayon sang onse ka sako nga used clothing kag mga tinapay sa kaalwan sang Angelina. Nagpadala man ang parokya sang materiales (subong abi sang mga pusog, kawayan, lansang, amakan kag galvanized iron) bulig sa pagpatindog sang balay sang mga tao nga nasunugan.

Sa sini nga hitabo, diri naton masaksihan ang espirito sang bayanihan. Ang mga tao sa sining magamay nga katilingban naghugpong, nagbululigay, wala ginbale ang daku nga kabudlay mabuligan lang sang tanan ang pagtapna sang kalayo. May ara man nga nagasiling nga daku nga milagro ang natabo kay ngaa nga sa balay gid sang Mahal nga Birhen nag-untat ang kalayo.

Nagahibi nga nagapanaysayon ang isa ka nanay nga nagakongkong pa sang iya baby. Siling niya: “Ginbuligan gid kami sang Mahal nga Birhen sang Medalya Milagrosa. Nagapati ako nga ginhumlad niya ang iya manto sa paghatag proteksyon sa amon. Milagrosa gid siya matuod. Kabay pa nga matandog man ang mga tagipusuon sang mga tao kag maghatag man sing kabilinggan sa Mahal nga Birhen paagi sa pagpangadi sang Santo Rosario.” May isa man didto nga naghambal, “Sang pagbaha wala man ang Mahal nga Iloy maano. Nag-untat ang pagdalom sang tubig sa iya nayon.”

Pagpuas sang kalayo, nagkadto ako sa old chapel, didto man gihapon ang Mahal nga Iloy, sa gihapon nagatan-ay sang iya mga kamot, handa sa pagbulig sa iya mga kaanakan. Nagpasalamat ako sa iya kay ako man nagapati nga tungod sa iya bulig wala maglapta ang kalayo.





Parents’ Formation Update

Parents’ Formation Update
by Evelyn B. Nervato

The Parish of Our Lady of Candles in partnership with the Jaro Archdiocesan Social Action Center (JASAC) continues to enrich the parish program by helping the poor especially the under-nourished children. This program does not only feed the children but most importantly it enriches the parents’ spirituality. A group of Jaro Catechists conducted a spiritual formation session to the parents of these under-nourished children. These parents are also taught the proper care and feeding of their children.

The first session, “Ang Pagtuga” was given last February 19 in Barangay Cuartero Hi-way. The second session, “Ang Pagkilalahay” was given last February 24 and 27 in four barangays - Taytay Zone II, San Vicente, and Cuartero Hi-way.



Private Schools Urge ‘Clear Guidelines‘ For Conduct of Drug Testing

Private Schools Urge ‘Clear Guidelines‘ For Conduct of Drug Testing

(News condensed from CBCP Monitor, Vol.13 No. 4, February 16 – March 1, 2009, by Roy Lagarde – News Editor)
by Armando A. Suñe

Catholic schools are in favor of the government plan for random drug testing to be conducted in both public and private schools in the country.

But the Catholic Educators Association in the Philippines (CEAP) along with other private schools wants the government to provide strict and clear guidelines in the conduct of drug testing in all high schools and tertiary levels.
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n a statement, the Coordinating Council of Private Educational Associations (COCOPEA) said that while the drug testing is worthy of support there are still facets that need concern.

The educators said authorities have to assure the anxious public that it has set in place safeguards to prevent negligence or malice aimed at incriminating students.

The group cited the Comprehensive Dangerous Drugs Act of 2002 which provides that “students of secondary and tertiary schools shall, pursuant to the related rules and regulations as contained in the school’s student handbook and with notice to the parents, undergo random drug testing, the expenses of which will be borne by the government.”

“Hence, in the interest of safeguarding the rights of its students from being violated in the process, clear implementing guidelines should be created in consultation with school officials and be discussed with appropriate stakeholders,” it added.

And while the COCOPEA acknowledges the value of the random drug testing, they said that the government’s campaign against illegal drugs should “substantively focus on the drug pushers and not the victims – such as the students.”

Reflecting on the issue, it should prove prudent indeed for the government to issue “definite and clear guidelines”, in consultation with the private and public education sector, in order to forestall possible confusion, finger-pointing, blaming, and, to put it optimistically, to ensure the honest success of the random drug-testing campaign.

The drug-use problem in our country is an issue too dangerous to be left aside. It is like a Pandora’s Box which, if left unchecked and curtailed, will open a plethora of more problems detrimental to our country – an illegal-drugs-trade-fueled economy, weakened and lessened able-bodied labor force, loss of moral values, breakdown of family life, and decreasing importance of personal religious affiliations. In fact, some of these problems have already begun to take root beyond our comfortable knowledge.

Jose Rizal was right after all when he said, “The youth is the fair hope of the fatherland.” A drug-crazed generation in our youth sector would certainly hamper our quest for a better Philippines. Anyone among us doesn’t need to look far to witness the destructive effects of drugs on the victimized person.

The random drug-testing program of the government doesn’t have to go awry and unsuccessful because of poor and hasty planning. We commend and are one with the COCOPEA in calling awareness towards the urgent need for such “clear guidelines” to be issued and implemented by the government. As private citizens of our country, we join in the well-meaning call for the transparent pro-active response of the government authorities concerned. After all, as Ninoy Aquino said, “The Filipino is worth dying for,” and all the efforts of both the private sector and government should have no other motive than the honest and sincere delivery of the welfare needs of our people.

Rediscover Confession, Urges Benedict XVI

Rediscover Confession, Urges Benedict XVI
Calls It Sacrament of Forgiveness

(News condensed from CBCP Monitor, Vol.13 No.4, February 16 – March1, 2009; Zenit)
by Armando A. Suñe

VATICAN CITY, February 15, 2009 – Sin is what puts distance between the believer and God, and it’s the sacrament of confession that brings the two back together, says Benedict XVI.
The Pope said this today in a Gospel reflection on Mark’s account of the healed leper (Mark 2: 1-12), which he delivered before praying the midday Angelus with those gathered in St. Peter’s Square.

“It is not…physical malady that distances us from God, as the ancient norms supposed, but sin, the spiritual and moral evil.”

Benedict XVI reflected: “The sins we commit distance us from God, and, if they are not humbly confessed, trusting in the divine mercy, they will finally bring about the death of the soul. This miracle ( of the healed leper) thus has powerful symbolic value.

“In the Sacrament of Penance Christ crucified and risen, through his ministers, purified us with his infinite mercy, restores us to communion with the heavenly Father and our brothers, and makes a gift of his love, joy, and peace to us.”

“Dear brothers and sisters,” he concluded, “let us invoke the Virgin Mary, whom God preserved from every stain of sin, that she help us to avoid sin and to have frequent recourse to the sacrament of confession, the sacrament of forgiveness, whose value and importance for our Christian life needs to be rediscovered today.”

Our reflection on Pope Benedict XVI’s message makes us conclude that, beyond the physical healing that may take place because of confession, confession itself heals our relationship with God and makes us children of God again. Sin separates us from God and takes us away from the “State of Grace” necessary to enter into friendship with HIM. Confession restores that “State of Grace” in us and makes us friends with God again. Going to confession requires HUMILITY, which means one has to die from the refusal of admitting to God his sins, all because of his stubbornness and pride.

Why do a lot of Catholics these days refuse to go to confession? It is because of this pride and stubbornness, the same Sin that Adam and Eve committed. Worst, a lot of Catholics these days have adopted the wrong attitude of non-Catholics who were wrongly taught to believe they should confess only directly to God. As Catholics, we need to remember what Jesus Christ said to Peter and the Apostles during the resurrection, “Those whose sins you forgive, they are forgiven. Those whose sins you retain, they are retained.” Priests ordained in the Roman Catholic Church are the present-day successors of Peter and the Apostles. Christ forgives us of our sins during confession through these ordained Roman Catholic priests. Let us not be afraid then to go to our priests for Confession, especially this Lenten season.

Confession does give us the bonus of a liberating feeling of well-being, of light-heartedness, of an unexplainable feeling of goodness and freedom of spirit in God’s name, and of knowing that we are back in God’s care and protection. This results in a general feeling of good health and a possible return to physical healing of our infirmities itself. Only those who have gone to a good Confession with a priest receive this blessing – this feeling of relief, goodness and well-being. No drug-abuse habit can come up to this unexplainable “HIGH” that only comes from God. Just ask your friend who has gone to a good Confession, dear reader. Now, I am asking you: Wanna try going to Confession? I dare you, dear reader. Try it. You won’t regret it.

Archbishop's Message for Lent Season

LENT is an opportune occasion for profound re-examination of life, for confronting ourselves with the truth of the Gospel, which demands radical moral renewal. Jesus Christ begins his public ministry with the message: “The time of fulfillment has come … Repent (i.e. change your mind and behavior), and believe in the Gospel” (Mk. 1/15). St. Paul the Apostle gives his rejoinder: “Be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and clothe yourselves with the new self, created according to the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness” (Eph. 4/23).

Along this line, the scientist, Albert Einstein, offered a formula for solving the problems and crises that churches, institutions and governments are facing when he said: “The significant problems we face today cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created these problems and crises.” We will not solve our problems – religious, social, economic, political- by insisting on doing the same things that have produced the problems. The call of Lent is for moral renewal. To achieve this we need at least a critical mass of citizens-leaders who are willing to “break out of the box,” to jump on to the beginning of a new wave, to move into a new cycle of development, to operate with a new social consciousness and conscience, not for their individual or group security, but for the good of the greatest number.

We stated, some years ago, at the National Pastoral Consultation on Church Renewal, that “failures in renewal have come from a deeper source: our hardness of heart and resistance to conversion….We, as Church, have to confess responsibility for many of the continuing ills of Philippine society.” In a Pastoral Statement on “Renewing Our Political Life” (January 29, 2006), we said, and we can say it again, that “at the bottom of our political chaos is a crisis of moral values, a crisis of truth and justice, of unity and solidarity for the sake of common good and genuine peace.”

The most seriously affected by the crisis of moral values are the poor, the marginalized, oftentimes treated like commodities. Graft and corruption breeds widespread poverty. Widespread poverty in turn breeds graft and corruption. There is a concatenation of crisis and corruption that goes down to the barangay level, up and down and up, infecting the whole of society, like a contagious cancer.

To cure this social cancer we need a new breed of leaders in our country. The forthcoming national elections must not simply be a changing of hats for the same persons, or change of faces but with unchanged hearts. We must be able to gather a critical mass of citizens-leaders with a genuine passion and obsession for good governance and prophetic leadership. This critical mass will be the training ground of other citizens who will lead our country with the value s of honesty and justice, truth and integrity, credibility and accountability, transparency and stewardship. These are the moral values that citizens must use to criticize and measure the present brand of leaders and raise up a new breed of leaders.

St. Perpetua and St. Felicity (+202-203)

St. Perpetua and St. Felicity (+202-203)
by Fe Marina S. Siacon

These two saints faced martyrdom hand in hand at Carthage in North Africa during the Persecution of Septimus Severus. The account of their deaths was probably written by Tertullian. The account was so highly esteemed that in the fourth century it was read publicly in the Churches of Northern Africa.

Perpetua, 22 years of age, was the daughter of a pagan nobleman and she was the mother of an infant still in swaddling clothes. Felicity, a slave, gave birth to a child prematurely while in prison. Three other catechumens were imprisoned with Perpetua and Felicity and they were soon joined by their teacher, Saturus. They were baptized while in prison, prior to their death in the amphitheater. The detailed account of their martyrdom is one of the greatest literary treasures that have come down to us from the early Church.



Reflection Their martyrdom highlights the intensity of their love for God. Felicity was asked by a prison guard to avoid martyrdom for the sake of her unborn child, but she refused, standing firmly for her faith. She said that even if she was going through the pains of labor she will never give up. Her love for God transcends one of the most powerful of human love. Her response to the prison guard can serve as a protest today against the widespread slaughter of the unborn through abortion. Today even the government officials are trying to propose a health bill leading to abortion in the guise of family planning. Let us pray for their enlightenment. Perpetua although from a pagan upbringing, grew in faith after her baptism. The account of her imprisonment would still be relevant today, for she said, “The Spirit inspired me to ask from the water of baptism nothing more than constancy of the flesh.” Both of them were given by the Holy Spirit the courage to endure the torments of martyrdom. Prayer: Father, Your love gave saints Perpetua and Felicity courage to suffer a cruel martyrdom. We too, are suffering from martyrdom; martyrdom in poverty, injustice, and inequality; degradation of values, and high level of political maneuvering. Help us grow in love for You despite our sufferings. Let Sts. Perpetua and Felicity intercede for us before You. Amen.

WHO AM I?

WHO AM I?
by Khristyne Joy S. Paniza

Who would ever think that a sinner like me would be loved by someone so omnipotent? Why would He offer himself to save me from my sins? Am I worth the sacrifice He did 2000 years ago? As the songs goes, “Who am I that the Lord of all the earth, would care to know my name, would care to know myhurt?”

These are the questions that I often ask myself of how I came into being despite my unworthiness of His great sacrifice. I sometimes find myself rejecting His love and I tend to dwell on earthly things, thinking that this could heal the brokenness in me. Human as I am, I struggle to understand life’s uncertainties and I admit it is hard to find meaning in every endeavor I have. I would sometimes feel empty, scared and not even knowing why these things are happening in my life. The innate vulnerability in me caused me hurts and rejections that left my young and fragile heart wounded. I admit that I was scared of letting go things; things that are within my comfort zone because I was scared of the responsibility that lies ahead when I’ll grow maturely as a Christian. But then I realized that I have God who unconditionally loves me and accepts me for who I am; our Savior who never fails to understand and forgives our sins. There is nothing I should be scared of because He will be there to catch me in every downfall. He would be there to make me understand things and make me appreciate the sacrifice He did. I have God who would always be there for me even if others would depart and I know that I am nothing without God.

As we celebrate the Lenten season, may it remind us of God’s unending love for us, make us value why He offered Himself to save us from our sins 2000 years ago. We may be sinners but we have God who sacrificed for us and who is always willing to forgive us of our sins. We have a God who will make us strong and steadfast when we are tormented by life’s cruelties. We should be thankful that God gave up Himself to redeem us of our sins . May we never fail to submit to His will and in turn, let us unselfishly offer ourselves to Him also.

The next time you’ll ask yourself “Who am I?” never hesitate to answer:

“Lord, I am yours”.

Stop and Read!

Stop and Read!
by Jesa Christine T. Capagal

If you really want something in life, you will work really hard for it – even if it takes few hours of overtime. There are even times at night when you pray so hard so that these wishes will be given to you. However, if you are like this, then it is time to stop and breathe for awhile.

These hectic hours of your life are sometimes referred to as your “moments overlooked”. We become self-centered and hoped for things only to the advantage of ourselves. We forget to stop and just thank God that something good is happening in our lives. Could you just consider giving a hand to someone in need, to give a warm smile to those who are aching, and to give a comforting shoulder to someone in pain? These are just a few things the world really needs.



Just like Jesus, he never thought of Himself but US. These lives that we hold in hand are only lent to us by God. We are here to fulfill His miracles for humankind. Miracles that only we, ourselves could do: a smile, a hug and a concern for those in need. We are not only here to strive for our betterment but to help each other to survive.

Lent, A Call for Change

Lent, A Call for Change
by Francine Caram

For many Christians the Lenten season can be a mystery. For some, lent is a period of going on a diet, for others lent is a time when their Catholic friends wear ashes on their foreheads and eat fish on Fridays, but in a larger sense, lent is the period of fasting leading up the feast of Easter, recalling Jesus’ 40-day fast in the wilderness.

The forty days represent the time Jesus spent in the desert, where according to th Bible he endured temptation by Satan.

The purpose of Lent is the preparation of the believer, through prayer, penitence, almsgiving and self-denial for the annual commemoration during Holy Week of the Death and Resurrection of Jesus, which recalls the events linked to the Passion of Christ and culminates in Easter, the celebration of the Resurrection of Jesus Christ.

We usually spend the Lenten season with our families. Some of our parents see this as a time for the members of the family to be one in prayer.

If we look at it clearly, Lent also serves as the time for change. As the time for us to realize how much we owe God for making all things possible, for keeping us in tract when the rode leads nowhere. It’s such ashame to see that after the forty days of bringing yourself closer to God, you’re still the same person you were the very first time you walked down the aisle and the priest put that ash cross on your forehead till the time Easter comes to an end.

Perhaps this is our wake up call, our chance to be better children of God. For once the priest puts that ash cross on your forehead and says, “Of dust you are made and of dust you shall return.” It is only rightful that we reminisce all He has dedicated to us. My dear brothers and sisters, let us seek for guidance in darkness, for we are His children, and together we believe in Him even if He does not speak.

Three Seasons in Our Hearts

Three Seasons in Our Hearts
by Pureza D. Lacuesta

Christianity is not confined to celebrating the three seasons of the year in the months precisely prescribed for them. Christianity is for all time.

Every Christian has to enshrine in his heart the image and virtues of Jesus, and make I his daily practice to implement the cycle of joy (Christmas time), love (Valentine’s Day) and repentance (Lenten season), as long as he lives.

It is not easy to celebrate these three feelings if we only think about them – philosophies and arguments may rise within us, time element and job responsibilities may pause as obstacles, but if we are determined to do it, we really can. “It is will power and determination, firm decision and instant implementation that can move us to be truly Christian.” I enclose this line with quotation marks because this is a borrowed line from the homily of Fr. Andy Esperancilla, two Sundays back.

Look! Isn’t sharing your food with a hungry child, a season of joy? Aren’t you happy if that hungry child smiles at you with gratitude in his eyes? Isn’t that December for you? Or, don’t you feel the joy of December if you cover the bare shoulders of an old, shivering woman and she presses your hand with gratitude? Tell me if that isn’t Christmas.

Then, when you hurry home and your mother is relieved of her kitchen work;
Like washing the clothes, or cleaning of the house, and she smiles at you gratefully, isn’t that love? If you lead an old woman across the street, visit a friend in the hospital, give hope to a desperate person or pray for people who have no time for prayer, isn’t that love, greater than the love shown on Valentine’s Day? Love can be given in many ways. The avenue is open every moment of the day.

It is night time, time to rest. The sky is dark. It marks the end of another day. Wouldn’t it be prudent to evaluate our day, and recall if we have hurt somebody through unkind words or actions or even in our thoughts? Couldn’t we ask forgiveness from the Lord, as we accept our failings? Make it your lent.

We are never sure when our final moment would come. We can never tell when our last footstep would stop. We can never tell when we will face the judgment seat. It is therefore an insurance of salvation if we live the three seasons everyday. It is not difficult if we are determined. It is not difficult if we aredecided.

Try to adjust your timetable to a Christian’s “Three-Season-Day” and you will feel more patient, helpful, sincere and friendly to God and our fellowmen. Make the three seasons your permanent vineyard, your voluntary assignment in the field of Christianity.

Kay Sin-o kag Diin Ako Masugod? SA PAGHILIUSA ARA ANG KABASKOG…

Kay Sin-o kag Diin Ako Masugod?
SA PAGHILIUSA ARA ANG KABASKOG…

“Kari kamo ang tanan nahanda na
Sa punsyon sang paghigugma
Maghi-ugyon nga may kasadya
Sa pagkabuhi sang bug-os nga paghiliusa”

Ini una nga mga dinalan sang amba sang ikatlo nga Sinodo Diosesano sang Jaro. Sa ambahanon, mabasa naton nga “ang tanan nahanda na sa punsyon sang paghigugma…” apang pamangkuton naton ang aton kaugalingon: Ako bala bahin sinang punsyon sang paghigugma? Ako bala handa sa pagbugras sang akon makinaiya-iyahon nga pamatasan kag makig-ugyon sa mga katapo sang akon panimalay, sa akon mga kasilingan tungod kay sila, pareho ko, nahamtang o nagapuyo sa isa lamang ka komunidad? Ako bala handa sa pagtan-ay sang akon mga kamot sa akon mga kaupod sa akon ginaobrahan? Ako bala handa makig-uli o makipag-abyan sa akon mga kaaway?
Ang paghiusa nagasugod sa aton mismo kaugalingon. Ang matuod nga pagpakig-angot mahimo lamang kon kita wala sing pagpakuno-kuno… kon ano ang aton ginapanumdom amo ang aton ginahambal; kon ano ang aton ginapabutyag amo ang aton ginabuhat; kon ano ang aton ginapanumdom kag ginapabutyag aton ginakabuhi… bangod kay katapo kita sang isa ka Kristohanon nga panimalay nga katapo man sang isa ka katilingban nga may isa ka direksyon, may isa ka misyon, may isa ka panan-awan padulong sa bug-os nga paghiliusa.
Sa paghiliusa ara ang kabaskog. Madamo ang mahimo/mabuhat kon may paghiliusa. Kami makapanaksi sini sa amon mga gin-agihan sang ginpatigayon ang pagpangkadto namon sa mga barangay nga ginhugpong sa siyam ka mga zona nga nasakupan sang mga masunod nga mga barangay:
Zona I San Vicente, Lourdes Jalandoni, Lourdes DB
Zona II Benedicto, Luna
Zona III Democracia, Simon Ledesma
Zona IV Tabuc Suba Proper, Tabuc Suba Ilaya
Zona V Ma. Cristina, San Roque
Zona VI Libertad, Fajardo, Arguelles
Zona VII Taytay Zone II, Cuartero, Calubihan
Zona VIII Taft North, Bakhaw
Zona IX Desamparados, CC El 98, Seminario

Sa wala pa matalana ang adlaw sang pagsugod sang pagpanglakaton sa mga zona upod sang imahen sang Nuestra Señora de la Candelaria, may mga pagsinapol nga ginhiwat sa diin ginplanohan sang Committee on Worship upod kay Fr. Andy kag Fr. Philip ang mga buluhaton kag mga tawo nga magapatigayon sini.
Duna sa pamatasan sang mga tawo ang pagtililipon bangod kay ang tawo “social being”; apang ang paghugpong sang mga ini sa isa ka balaan nga tinutuyo isa ka mabudlay nga hilikuton. Ang madamo nga mga tawo sa zona nga nag-abi-abi sang pag-abot sang imahen sang aton Mahal nga Patrona amat-amat nga nagkaladula o nangindulaan sang ang tagpatigayon sa pagpaambit nahanungod sang mga hilikuton sang isa ka gamay nga katilingban nagsugod sa paghambal. Kami nga grupo halin sa katedral nakapamangkot: Diin ang ila “commitment”? Tubtob diin lang kag ano lang ang ila masarangan nga ihatag sa katilingban para mabalay ang isa ka paghiliusa?
Natigayon ang siyam ka adlaw nga pagsugat-pagdul-ong sang imahen sang Nuestra Señora de la Candelaria, pagpakig-ambit bahin sa urna kag “Ang Gamay nga Kristianong Katilingban: Alagyan Padulong sa Bug-os nga Paghiliusa,” pagpartisipar sa Santos nga Misa, salamat sa paghugpong sang mga masunod, may ulan man ukon wala:
Fr. Andy Esperancilla Fr. Philip Sinco
Fr. Macky Sortido Bp. Gerry Alminaza,D.D.
Fr. Caloy Noquez Fr. Richard Daulo
Lourdes Prudente Remy Mationg
Evelyn Jimena Monico Alitao
Princess Descalsota Louie Vi Vergara
Ludy Alconga Virginita Vergara
Annabelle Guevara Jervin Vinzon
Jerly Docdocil Richard Camilotes
Neneng Siscar Darlee Estribo
Evelyn Nervato Vicente Gonzales
John Cloyd Pahila Kirby Guevara
Harvey Guevara Kate Sevilla
Dolores Pahila Felma Bering
Jennifer Addun Ione Espartero
Christopher Villa Paulo Pasquin
Lourdes Villa Roseller Villa

Ang amon mga inagihan- masadya, masubo, kaulugot/kailinit- nagpatubo pa gid sa amon bilang katapo sang isa ka daku nga katilingban, ang Parokya sang Nuestra Señora de la Candelaria; apang ang mga masunod nga mga pamalangkutanon magapadayon sa pagpangita sang mga sabat nga dapat naton tanan-tanan panumdoman:
Ano ang akon bahin sa pagtukod sang isa ka gamay nga katilingban indi lamang sa akon panimalay kundi lakip na sa akon barangay?
Paano ako makabulig sa pagpalapnag sang Kristianong pagtuluohan?
Hamtong na bala ako sa akon pagtuo kag handa na bala sa pagpaambit sang paghigugma nga wala nagapaabot sang balos?
Kon ang tagsa-tagsa sa aton may kabalaka sa isa kag isa kag maghimo sang dapat niya himuon (sugod sa kaugalingon), indi malayo nga malambot/matigayon ang bug-os nga paghiliusa.